VANESSA ACCUSES KOBE BRYANT OF SLEEPING WITH OVER 100 WOMEN DURING MARRIAGE

I saw an article yesterday claiming that Vanessa Bryant accused Kobe Bryant of sleeping with over 100 women during the course of their marriage which was a span of 10 and a half years.

“[Vanessa] estimated that he was averaging at least 10 affairs a year with different women over the course of their marriage and puts his number of conquests at 105...The lies and deceit hurt, of course, but racking up those kinds of numbers is mind-blowing and left her devastated. And when she discovered he was cheating during the recent NBA lockout, that was the final straw. her private detective caught him redhanded with incriminating photos.”

What's a woman to do if she knows that her husband is constantly cheating on her? I don't know how much I could've dealt with that dilemma, but even though Vanessa wanted to divorce Kobe four years ago, her mother advised her to keep at it until the ten year mark came. Now that the number totaled 10 and a half years, it is time that Vanessa peace out with her first paycheck being $75 million dollars. Money can buy you something after all!

You Just Do You, Imma Do Me

Camille

JESSE JAMES HAS NO HARD FEELINGS FOR CHEATING ON SANDRA BULLOCK

It's been a whirlwind for Jesse James, the ex-husband of Oscar winner Sandra Bullock. Shortly after she won Best Actress for her role in The Blind Side, allegations started pouring out of how Jesse James cheated on her with multiple women, can I add sleazy women at best?!

Since then, he has been bashed in a negative light by the media and the paparazzi. But in a recent interview, seems like he tried to justify his actions in a more positive light. He said, "I never got one negative comment, not from anyone. The only people who said negative stuff to me were the paparazzi and they were being paid to. The media portrayed it as this huge negative thing but if anything, I got more support from everybody else, because, yes, I cheated on my wife but so do a lot of other people.

Does that mean I'm the devil? Or that I'm Satan? I don't think so. I made a mistake and I'm sorry for it but I owned up to it. I didn't lie or do any kind of BS. I did it, I made a mistake and I owned up to it and took it like a man and took all the abuse for it, which nobody does."

To make matters worse, interviewers asked him if he had forgiven himself for cheating on his wife and his response was, "Oh yeah. I'm cool." First of all, the only people who probably didn't say negative stuff were his sleazy girls and motorcycle friends which don't ask if you ask an outside source. FYI all of America does not like you and only portrays you in the media because of what you did to Sandra Bullock, not to mention laugh at how dumb you are. Jesse James can just stay a nobody for as long as I'm concerned, in his small world of nobodies.

You Just Do You, Imma Do Me

Camille

WEINER SCANDAL BRINGS UP TOPIC "IS SEXTING CHEATING?"

All over the news, you can't get enough of Congressman Anthony Weiner who got caught sexting different women pictures of himself which included sexual messages. What's disturbing is that he is married to Huma Abedin, a longtime personal aide of Hilary Clinton who is through this difficult time standing by her Democrat congressman husband. Looking at the pictures of a shirtless Weiner is not only disturbing, but it's worse when you see in the background pictures of his family, wife, and former President Bill Clinton!

Let me tell you that this Weiner does not discriminate. So far, 6 women have come out admitting they have had a cyber relationship with Mr. Weiner over the past 3 years. It began with a picture being sent to Gennette Nicole Cordova, a Seattle college student which Weiner insisted was a "prank" and that he did not send any photos to her. But then Lisa Weiss, a blackjack dealer from Las Vegas claims that over the span of 9 months she got over 200 sexting messages and even got a call over a congressional use only phone line. Megan Broussard is a single mother from Texas who leaked photos, FB messages, and emails to the press. Ginger Lee is a porn star he sent his "bulging" picture to and urged her to lie about their relationship to the press, offering her professional PR advice.

Which brings up the topic to my main point...IS SEXTING CHEATING?! Though Congressman Weiner admits to sexting but never doing anything physical with these women, any type of relationship other than the one you're in is considered cheating. Marriage therapist Eli Karam says, "What texting does is allow you to get this immediate validation, or fix. You send a picture, you get an immediate response, and you don't have to deal with any face-to-face interaction." Researchers claim that a relationship is a relationship whether you touch that person or not. This type of virtual or "emotional infidelity" can be just as harmful as any physical fling.

Here are some thoughts:

"Would you text it, post it, send it with your spouse/partner looking over your shoulder?" If yes, then it's not infidelity. If no, you're cheating."

"I think the emotional betrayal is just as bad. A married/committed person should not be flirting online -- or in any manner, really. It demonstrates a clear unfaithfulness. You're in a relationship. Act like it."

"I think there's a perception that what you're doing online is somehow not real. But of course it is." The lure of Internet relationships "allow them to escape the responsibilities and pressures of real relationships."

According to a 2004 ABC poll, 64% of adults considered it unfaithful "if a person who's married or in a committed relationship has sex talk in an Internet platform." Psychologist Gail Saltz says, "For men, the sexual act is much more disturbing than anything else. For women, what constitutes a betrayal is any emotional or sexual interaction. A man would be extremely disturbed if his wife/girlfriend did any of this."

DON'T LET FACEBOOK / TWITTER / CHAT / EMAILS RUIN YOUR LIFE AND YOUR PARTNER'S LIFE!!! If you have to do this behind someone's back, then it's considered cheating. How dumb do you have to be if you're in a position of constant press [professional sports/government/celebrity]?! Even though it may seem like your "secret" will never be revealed, it will catch up to you sooner than you expect and it will not be pretty. If you're married or in a committed relationship, ask yourself first "IS IT WORTH IT?!" If it is, then maybe you shouldn't be a relationship with anyone and you should be up front with them. Don't drag them along having them think that they're the only person when they are really not. Sexting or engaging in any "inappropriate" conversation with someone, no matter who they are and where they are from can be damaging to your partner in a way you will never realize. Just think before you act, please.

You Just Do You, Imma Do Me

Camille